Canada and the United States were once inseparable; not just neighbors, but partners who built a life together. We shared dreams, intertwined economies, and a deep cultural kinship rooted in democracy, fairness, and mutual respect. For generations, we finished each other’s sentences in diplomatic halls, mourned the same tragedies, and believed without question that this bond was unbreakable.
But something fundamental has shattered.
This isn’t a policy disagreement or temporary friction. This is the slow, agonizing collapse of a relationship we thought would last forever. Like a marriage that dies through a thousand small betrayals, the bond between Canada and the US is coming undone; and we’re left making excuses for behavior we’d never tolerate from anyone else.
The partner we thought we knew has become unrecognizable. Where there was reliability, there’s chaos. Where there was trust, there’s abuse. The country that once championed freedom now rolls back rights, worships division, and follows an orange demagogue into authoritarian fever dreams.
And what’s most infuriating? Our own prime minister seems paralyzed, unable or unwilling to stand up to this bully who slaps tariffs on our steel, insults our sovereignty, and treats us like a subordinate rather than an equal. We watch, humiliated, as our leader offers polite objections while our neighbor dismantles everything the relationship once stood for. We’ve tried to wait it out, to believe this is temporary. But as the US spirals deeper into MAGA madness, we’re forced to confront an unbearable truth: the America we appreciated may be gone, and our leadership lacks the spine to acknowledge it.
The time has come to stop pretending and start asking the hard questions: What does it mean to stand beside someone who no longer shares your values? And where does Canada go when both our neighbor and our own government refuse to face reality?
Watching Democracy Rot
The transformation of the United States feels both surreal and tragic, a nation that once stood as a beacon of democracy now teetering on the edge of paranoia. For Canadians, who once saw America as the guardian of liberty, the sight is both shocking and heartbreaking.
The Make America Great Again movement has morphed into an ideology that feeds on fear, resentment, and conspiracy. What began as populist rhetoric has evolved into a quasi-religious crusade against truth itself. The rise of nationalist militias, the erosion of institutional trust, and the glorification of “strongman politics” have left the United States barely recognizable to its friends and allies.
President Trump’s administration didn’t just disrupt norms, it dismantled them. Civil rights, once thought untouchable, were rolled back with alarming speed. Access to abortion, LGBTQ+ protections, and voting rights have all been targeted under a banner of “freedom” that feels anything but liberating. The deployment of troops to US cities during protests, the tear-gassing of journalists, and the intimidation of voters blurred the line between law enforcement and authoritarianism.
Culturally, the freefall has been just as steep. Conspiracy theories now drive mainstream policy debates, from election denialism to anti-science movements. And this leaves Canada and the world wondering how a democracy so powerful could become so fragile.
Schools in several states are banning books, whitewashing history, and treating education as a threat. Online hate speech, political violence, and attacks on minorities are now met with shrugs rather than outrage. Americans are dismantling the very institutions that once made their country admired. For Canadians, it feels like watching an older brother destroy the house you both grew up in each brick of reason, tolerance, and decency torn down in the name of “greatness.”
Tariffs, Trade Wars, and Trust Lost
But the betrayal wasn’t just ideological. When a partner turns on you emotionally, they usually come for your wallet next. In 2018, the Trump administration imposed steep tariffs on Canadian steel, aluminum, lumber, and dairy products that had long flowed freely across the border. It was more than a trade dispute; it was a declaration that loyalty and history no longer mattered in Washington.
Canada, forced to respond, imposed its own counter-tariffs on American goods. What had been a partnership built on trust now felt like a chess match played with grudges instead of strategy. These tariffs weren’t just about metal or milk; they were symbolic blows to a friendship that had taken generations to build.
The contrast couldn’t be starker. Where there was once a sense of shared prosperity, there is now suspicion. “Neighbors helping neighbors” has been replaced by “partners watching their backs.”The damage resulting from these tariffs has rippled across both economies, manufacturing has slowed, supply chains have faltered, and confidence has eroded. Cross-border businesses that once depended on cooperation now operate in uncertainty, unsure which policy or personality might spark the next round of hostility. For Canada, the message is clear: the Canada-US relationship could no longer be taken for granted.
The economic betrayal would have been enough to shake the relationship. But Washington wasn’t finished.
The Art of the Double-Cross
Canada is now watching with growing unease as the US flirts with its geopolitical rival: China. Washington’s relationship with Beijing swings wildly, from fiery condemnations to quiet backroom trade deals, leaving allies like Canada confused and exposed. One day, the US frames China as a threat to democracy; the next, American corporations rush to reopen factories and markets there. This hypocrisy undermines any moral high ground the US claims to have.
Caught in the middle, Canada has paid a price for trying to uphold its principles. When Canadian authorities detained Huawei executive Meng Wanzhou at America’s request, China retaliated by detaining two Canadians, a move widely seen as hostage diplomacy.
Yet, when the crisis unfolded, Washington’s support for Ottawa was tepid at best. It was a stark reminder that when America plays power games, even its closest allies become collateral damage.
Emotionally, this betrayal cuts deep.
For decades, Canada believed the US valued loyalty and shared ideals. Now, it seems Washington values expediency over everything. The US acts less like a partner and more like an empire one that expects obedience but offers little in return. America’s pivot toward China isn’t just about economics; it’s about values. And as Canada watches its neighbor trade integrity for influence, one truth becomes painfully clear: the moral center of the alliance that once anchored the West is shifting, and perhaps, slipping away entirely.
Building a Future Without Washington
For many Canadians, crossing south feels less like visiting a sibling’s home and more like stepping into a neighbor’s house mid-argument. The border’s quiet presence has become a mirror, reflecting how far the two societies have grown apart. For more than a century, Canada’s economic lifeline has pulsed southward. We’ve traded not just goods, but destiny, tying our fortunes to American consumers, investors, and industries.
Yet, as the US turns inward and erratic, Canada finds itself standing at a crossroads it long avoided: how to prosper without leaning so heavily on Washington. The solution to this political quandary lies not in reaction, but in diversification. This diversification should be treated as a national survival strategy for Canada.
We need to strengthen trade and diplomatic ties with Europe through agreements like CETA, deepen economic integration with Asia-Pacific partners, and nurture more resilient supply chains with Central and South American nations like Mexico and Brazil. The diversification strategy can help loosen our dependency on our southerly neighbor that has defined us for generations.
The goal of this transition isn’t to sever ties with the US, but to build a sturdier, more self-reliant foundation for Canada, one that ensures our economic health doesn’t rise or fall with the mood swings of American politics.
The World Needs an Alternative
For decades, our identity has been shaped in America’s reflectionits, entertainment, its headlines, its moral debates. But as our southern neighbor tears itself apart over ideology and identity, Canada has an opportunity to reassert its own voice.
Investing in Canadian content, technology, and creative industries isn’t just patriotic—it’s essential for sovereignty. We can define progress on our own terms, celebrating empathy, diversity, and reason in an age when shouting often drowns out thought.
The global audience is hungry for stability and decency, and Canada can offer that—if we choose to step into the spotlight rather than remain in the background of America’s story. Our strength has never been in force; it has been in fairness. A renewed commitment to multilateralism, climate leadership, and humanitarian diplomacy could restore faith in the idea that nations can lead with principle rather than power.
Perhaps this reckoning, painful as it is, is our invitation to grow up—to stop defining ourselves by who we stand beside, and start defining ourselves by what we stand for.
Letting Go of What’s Gone
For many Canadians, this feels like watching someone you love destroy themselves; and realizing you can’t save them. We shared everything with the United States. We built industries together, defended each other’s borders, celebrated each other’s successes as our own. They were more than allies; they were the partner we measured ourselves against, the relationship that defined us. But that America; the one of open borders, civil debate, and democratic optimism, is gone. In its place stands something darker, angrier, more dangerous.
The tariffs weren’t just about steel and lumber. They were about being told, after generations of loyalty, that we don’t matter. The trade wars weren’t economic policy; they were betrayal dressed up as nationalism. And watching our own prime minister respond with diplomatic pleasantries while they gut our sovereignty has been its own kind of humiliation. The moment Carney apologized for a Canadian television ad featuring Ronald Reagan arguing against tariffs was truly gut-wrenching; watching our leader grovel because we’d committed the unforgivable sin of using their own Republican hero’s words to defend free trade. That’s where we are now: apologizing for quoting American presidents back to Americans when the truth becomes inconvenient.
We’ve grieved long enough.
Conclusion
Canada’s path forward isn’t about severing ties. It’s about refusing to drown alongside someone determined to sink. We diversify our trade with Europe, Asia, and Latin America. We invest in our own industries, our own voice. We lead on climate, human rights, and democracy; not waiting for Washington’s permission, not seeking their approval.
We can hope our neighbor finds its way back. But hope isn’t a strategy, and loyalty to a memory isn’t patriotism. The time has come for Canada to stop being America’s apologetic sidekick and start being its own damn country; one where our values aren’t for sale, our sovereignty isn’t negotiable, and our future doesn’t hinge on whether they sober up and remember who we used to be.
We deserved a partner. We got a bully with a nostalgia problem.
So now, we become the true NORTH: independent, unapologetic, and finally free.
Marc-Roger Gagne MAPP
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